Wednesday, March 3, 2010

Love...


ahhh, Love> what a wonderful thing isn't it? It's the only unexplainable act left on earth. Because really...can you explain to me why we fall in love? Why we fall out of love? Why we have no control over love? Why love hurts? Why love feels amazing? I ponder these thoughts and can't come up with an explanation for any. Because LOVE just happens.......
I love, Love. I think it can be the most incredible thing that one person can feel for another. Do you remember that Young Love, when you liked a boy and you didn't know if he liked you back? lol, I just told my girl AB this today. It was so much easier to have your friend talk to the boy for you so you can save yourself the embarrassment in case he doesn't like you back. Love was so easy then. As we get older we experience a First Love....the one that might possibly break your heart in so many pieces that you think you can never mend it back together again. You think that you are ruined FOREVER( and become so dramatic about it) and nothing or no one can possibly make it ok. Yep we have all been there haven't we? hahhaha That first love can also be the one that you end up marrying and live happily ever after with (in a fairytale that is....lol) Moving right along to a True Love. Yes this is the one ya'll...the one that is your soul mate, your best friend, your perfect lover, your everything. This is the one that i think exists for us all. I believe there is a true love out there for everyone, but not all of us are lucky enough to stumble upon that person. For those who do...you are truly lucky people. Waking up and going to bed with the person you can call your soul mate is really a blessing. When your heart is fulfilled in such a way that you can't imagine anyone else in it, you know that you are going to be happy growing old with each other. I'm not saying that love isn't a battlefield...But when it's worth the fight on that field, then you know it's real.
I wonder to myself is it better to be in love and not be loved in return? Or to be loved and not love in return? Hard question to answer isn't it? you can sit and think about it for hours, and no answer will make sense...because love sometimes doesn't make sense.
I really do love Love...as crazy and unexplainable as it may be! I can sit here drinking my tea with a candle lit next to me and just blabber away about what i think and feel about love (but that would make you get bored and want to read someone elses blog, LOL) So i am going to end my thoughts here...
So let me ask you this... do you believe in True love?